Friday, April 24, 2009

Turn, Turn, Turn

Ecclesiastes 3:1,2,4, 9-13
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,

"What does the worker gain from his toil? I have seen the burden God has laid on men. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil—this is the gift of God."
We lost a good friend yesterday. Paul was one of those people that you felt like you'd known him your whole life as soon as you met him. A good guy, through and through. He was a dedicated and wonderful teacher - a middle school teacher, at that. He had such a gentle spirit and a wonderful laugh. And he had cancer.



Paul was married to Wanda, my Mother in-Law's best friend. They were the kind of couple we all hope to be. They loved each other. Cherished each other. Went fishing together. Had adventures together. Loved each other's kids and grandkids. They took care of each other, in more ways than they ever expected to when they started their journey together. They just fit.


Paul battled cancer off and on for years. He fought the good fight. And early yesterday morning, that fight ended. We will miss him so much.



And despite our sadness over his loss, life moves forward...


Even as we're so sad, we are rejoicing as well. Just yesterday our family suffered a loss (for there is no question that Paul was part of our family), today our family has grown.

Today, Pat's brother became a Dad! Today, we welcome this sweet baby girl to this world.


Isn't she beautiful?

And so we are thanking God for the gift of life. We thank Him for the gift of Paul's life and the mark Paul has left on each of our hearts. And we thank God for the gift of this precious new life - so full of promise. We pray that we might be fortunate enough to leave a mark on her heart as she grows. That she may know goodness and joy, laughter and adventure, and that she may live life to the fullest. Just as Paul did.

4 comments:

Honorary Indian said...

Yesterday was Youth Sunday, and the entire service they organized and lead was based around this Ecclesiastes verse. Wow. Maybe God is speaking to me in some way about this scripture...I must meditate and pray about that...

Such a beautiful tribute to Paul. And your new niece. An earthly life ends...an earthly life begins. The circle of life is a wondrous thing.

HiHoOhio said...

So much sadness and happiness in one day. I am sorry for your pain and share in your joy. Love to you all. Your choice of Ecclesiastes is perfect, thanks for share. HUGS FROM OHIO

Dancing Queen said...

that is an incredible post! so, so true! one minute you hear of sadness, tragedy, and destruction and the next you hear of joy, miracles, and goodness...it only makes us appreciate so much more all we have each minute!

praying for peace for you all & paul's family & for lots of energy to the new parents:)

HiHoOhio said...

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